This is a video on YouTube, where a PhD John Gray talks about how to keep romance in relationships. In the other one with Jon Butcher.
It’s about listening. Looking. Touching. Being nice. Giving nice comments. Show appriciation. Take a romantic walk in a secluded beautiful place. Have a candle lit dinner at home, listen to calm, beautiful piano music. Doesn’t have to be expensive. Just romantic. Give flowers, perhaps a delicious singular praline (a candy, one only, but tasteful). Write something nice on the toilet paper. Place rose pedals on the bed. Light some candles. If you have a bath tub, fill it with warm water, bubbles. Have a nice light setting and a spa feel in the bathroom. Well, it doesn’t have to be expensive, but put time and effort into it. Both parties will feel happier. Give your spouse attention. Nice attention.